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A True Story

© Copyright 1999 by Sal N. Di Leo, edited by Jane E. Di Leo

This section is dedicated to providing
information on current happenings related
to the book and Sal's activities.

Chapel Update
August 21, 2006

We are well into building the chapel and priests' quarters at St. Francis Lodge but we still very much need volunteer carpenters, plumbers, electricians, masons, and other skilled builders. Please click here for a report and a few pictures.

Equally important, we are looking for Special Patrons to help us pay for materials as we build. Please note that contributions are not tax deductible.

We also ask for your prayers!

Sal

Index of Items

  1. Newsletter Christmas 2006 (December, 2006)

  2. Sal Di Leo celebrates progress at retreat

  3. After seven years, the Chapel at St. Francis Lodge is nearing completion

  4. Chapel dedicated at Lake George (June 9, 2006)

  5. Catholic Song Writer Mary Donahue to hold Concerts For Nuns

  6. Margaret Manley Memorial Chapel (December, 2005)

  7. Bemidji Pioneer: Lake George couple plan retreat center (September 19, 2004)

  8. Washington Post: Singing Reagan's Praises for a New Cause (August 25, 2004)

  9. A lake of their own: Lake George land to become retreat for nuns (June 23, 2004)

  10. Former Orphan Gives Back, Now a Serra Club Member (March 3, 2004)

  11. Appeal to Help Nuns (December, 2003)

  12. News Letter Christmas 2003 (December, 2003)

  13. St. Francis Lodge Stations completed by Notre Dame Sister (November, 2003)

  14. Editorial Counterpoint Article in Minneapolis Star Tribune (October 29, 2003)

  15. Second Annual "World Orphan Achievement Day"
    November 1st, 2003
    (October 24, 2003)

  16. St. Francis Lodge Stations Completed By Notre Dame Sister (October 2, 2003)

  17. Sal Di Leo to Help Raise Support to Build Mary Jo Copeland's Orphanage (August 13, 2003)

  18. Two articles in the Joliet Explorer (June 20, 2003)

  19. New retreat center to feature sculptures by Mankato Sister (June, 2003)

  20. The Catholic Spirit Features Sal and Lodge (March, 2003)

  21. Minneapolis Star Tribune Features Sal and Lodge (March 8, 2003)

  22. Sal Goes Back To Joliet, Illinois For Recent Visit To His Roots! (February 1, 2003)

  23. Fostering Families Today publishes article on World Orphan Achievement Day (November 25, 2002)

  24. KSTP5 TV's "On the Road" features St. Francis Lodge and Book (October 23, 2002)

  25. "World Orphan Achievement Day" Declared (October 20, 2002)

  26. Fostering Families Today Article (Summer 2002)

  27. St. Francis Village to Open in Lake George, MN Summer of 2003 (August 23, 2002)

  28. Park Rapids Enterprise Article (August 17, 2002)

  29. Lincoln Journal Star Article (August 4, 2002)

  30. Seeking Movie Board of Advisors (July 15, 2002)

  31. Baton Rouge, LA Book Review (June 9, 2002)

  32. St. Francis Lodge Coming Along (June 2, 2002)

  33. University of Nebraska Alumni Association Features Sal's Book (May 15, 2002)

  34. Minneapolis Star Tribune Features Sal and Daughter (March 27, 2002)

  35. Sal Defends Orphanages in WCCO Radio Interview (March 21, 2002)

  36. Vatican Sends letter of Approval for Book Did I Ever Thank You, Sister? (February 1, 2002)

  37. Bud Grant Made a Big Impact (February 13, 2002)

  38. Joliet Herald News Article (February 12, 2002)

  39. Related Resources


(October 29, 2003)
Editorial Counterpoint Article in Minneapolis Star Tribune

How misinformed your October 12th editorial "Orphanage Blues" was! Orphanages can work. I was raised in a Catholic orphanage outside Chicago with my three siblings in the 1960's. I spent 6 years at the Guardian Angel Home orphanage and then went to Boys Town in Nebraska for my high school years.

Today, at 50 years old, I am a proud family man, business man, and an author. I have a college degree, as do my siblings that were raised in the orphanage with me, and all of us are happy with lives. My wife of 25 years is also from an educated family and our mutual goals to educate and love our children has been a top priority.

I understand Mary Jo Copeland's reasons for wanting to build "Gift Of Mary Children's Home" and totally agree with her "family model" orphanage.

For the record, foster care is not under attack here with Mary Jo's "long term care concept."

Anyone who really cares agrees that a wonderful adoption or foster home can be the best thing for any child if they are lucky enough to find a good loving family or person to take them in. Unfortunately, that is often not the case. An alternative is very much needed for the many kids who are being bounced around from foster home to foster home and who don't know who really cares about them.

Many times the children also separated from their siblings. My siblings and I at least stayed together in one place at the orphanage and we had a sense of stability and predictability while we were there.

We had kids who were put in foster homes back in those days who came back to the orphanage and were glad when they came back for many reasons. Abuse was the most common reason I remember. We were a family and we called our orphanage "the Home"!

Sal Di Leo
Minneapolis, Minnesota

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June 20, 2003
Joliet, Illinois Catholic Explorer highlights St. Francis Lodge and Book

Ami M. Estrada, a writer for the Joliet Explorer paper wrote a wonderful and enlightening story about Sal and Beth Di Leo's St. Francis Lodge. Her story Orphan Pays Tribute To His Family Of Franciscan Nuns details Sal's childhood days as an orphan and being raised by the nuns.

Ami's story tells of Sal's appreciation as an adult of the work the nuns did for him and why he and his wife Beth are building St. Francis Lodge in northern MInnesota, a free retreat for nuns and women seeking religious Catholic life. The story offers a collage of front page pictures of Sal's project. It is an excellent description of this marvelous project. "In a society where it has become increasingly popular to blame one's problems on other people or events, the caring, sensible advice of the wise nuns helped mold Sal Di Leo into the man he is today...", Ami Estrada writes.

In the same issue of the Joliet Explorer, Fr. Kevin Shanley writes a wonderful tribute to Sal Di Leo's book, Did I Ever Thank You, Sister? in an article titled Gratitude is truly the memory of heart!. Father Shanley was a part-time chaplin at the Guardian Angel Home Orphanage in Joliet where much of Sal's book takes place back in the 1960's. "This story is truly an enlightening odyssey whose final chapters have yet to be lived. But the story to date is well worth reading for it's insightful look into human existence and the love that can conquer even major obstacles in life," Father Shanley points out in his review.

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Fostering Families Today publishes article on World Orphan Acievement Day
The Fall 2002 issue of Fostering Families Today features an article highlighting Did I Ever Thank You, Sister? and World Orphan Achievement Day. The article encourages orphans to submit their accomplishments to www.salsbook.com/achievers.

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St. Francis Lodge Coming Along

June 2, 2002

Dear Friends:

Despite all the financial challenges and life changes this year has brought to our house, God has continued to bless our little mission of St. Francis Lodge on Beautiful Lake George, Minnesota.

We have been able to clear the building site where the lodge is going to go, put in the well and septic system, build a Grotto for Mary, build the stairs down to the lake, and acquire docks to put in the lake. We also have electricity in and a camper on the property so we can stay at the land when we are working on it. Several individuals have bought memorials to help us pay for things like the Grotto, Stations of the Cross, and other special parts of the project. Here are a few pictures.

Please keep praying that the money continues coming. We are looking forward to seeing the first four Nuns in tennis shoes here soon.

Take care and God bless you.

Sal, Beth, Jane, and Kate Di Leo

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University of Nebraska Alumni Association Features Sal's Book

The University of Nebraska Alumni Association has presented Sal with the honor of featuring his book in the Spring 2002 issue of its publication Good NUz. The magazine is sent to all alumni,  alumnae, and supporters of the university.

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Sal Defends Orphanages in WCCO Radio Interview

Minneapolis, Minnesota
Sal discussed his book in an interview with Kim Jefferies of WCCO Radio on Thursday, March 21st. Also appearing on the show was Mary Jo Copeland, a Minneapolis native and nationally known advocate for the re-institution of orphanages in Minnesota and across the U.S. Sal voiced his support for Mary Jo's efforts, describing how the Guardian Angel Home Orphanage in Joliet, IL was a saving factor in his life.

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Vatican Sends Letter of Approval for Book Did I Ever Thank You, Sister?
 
For Immediate Release
Friday, February 1, 2002
Contact Sal Di Leo
P.O. Box 1900
Minneapolis, MN 55418
Tel 612.789.2795 or 612.207.1109
E-mail Sal@salsbook.com

"In July of 2001, I sent a copy of my manuscript of the book my daughter Jane and I worked on together to ask for the blessing of Pope John Paul II on the work," explains author Sal N. Di Leo, about his first book.

"In September of 2001, I received a letter back from the Vatican telling me that John Paul was pleased with the work and blessed it," Di Leo adds.

"My daughter Jane and I are extremely happy with the response from the Vatican because this story touches on the trials and tribulations of my life, as well as the incredible people who have been there with me along the way. Apparently, the Holy Father and his staff felt it was worth reading," Di Leo surmises. "We were ecstatic!" adds Jane.

For more information, contact
Sal Di Leo
P.O. Box 1900
Minneapolis, MN 55418
Tel 612.789.2795 or 612.207.1109
E-mail Sal@salsbook.com

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Bud Grant Made a Big Impact

For Immediate Release
Wednesday, Feb. 13, 2002

"I can understand why the men who played football for Bud Grant, when he was the coach for the NFL's Minnesota Vikings professional football team, played so hard. Bud's character and demeanor is such that he is fair and makes you not want to let him down or yourself for that matter," explains Sal Di Leo, author of the new book Did I Ever Thank You, Sister?

Di Leo also points out, "I would not have written this book if it were not for my friendship with Bud. He convinced me to go back into my past and face it, as well as look for the good in my life. Just 4 years later, as a result of Bud's guidance, I am publishing a book on my life story, pointing out how many good people made such a positive impact on my life. The rest is history."

Sal Di Leo's book tells a story that takes him back to his early days as a kid in 1963 when he and his three siblings were sent to a Catholic orphanage outside Chicago. The story is riveting and moving as it unfolds and covers 35 years of Mr. Di Leo's life from the days at the orphanage to his high school days at Boys Town, Nebraska, on through his difficult years as an adult.

"Bud helped me deal with my ghosts in a way no one else was able to," Di Leo points out. "I am grateful to Bud and all the good people who I discovered were there with me when I went back in my life and really took a good look," Di Leo declares.

A preview of the book is on-line at www.salsbook.com

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Joliet Herald News Article, February 12, 2001

 "Orphan Thanks Good Sisters In New Book!"
by John Whiteside

In the fall of 1997, I did a telephone interview with Sal DiLeo about the years he had spent as an orphan in Joliet's Guardian Angel Home. And his memories came flooding back.

Memories that rushed back so vividly that the 48-year-old Minneapolis man has now written a book titled Did I Ever Thank You, Sister? It's DiLeo's tribute to the kind Joliet nuns, whom he said saved his life.

DiLeo was one of four youngsters removed by the court from an east side home during the cold winter of 1962. Their father had deserted the family. Their mother was suffering from mental illness and in tears. There was no food in the house. The electricity was turned off.

At age 8 then, DiLeo described himself as a tough, mean little kid with a foul vocabulary. His older brothers and sisters-- there were 12 kids all together in the family-- had hit the streets to escape from being sent to an orphanage.

The four youngest were sent to the Guardian Angel Home, where they could expect hot meals and a structure in their lives.

DiLeo said they must have made a sight when they first arrived at the orphanage. Their hair was long and unkempt. They hadn't had a bath in a long time. Their little faces held expressions without hope.

But, he said they found hope and love at the orphanage. And faith, too.

"The sisters gave us as much love as any human being can give to another," he said. "It was an unconditional love for a bunch of kids whom no one wanted. They are amazing women. They taught us the importance of getting an education and how to work while they loved us."

My 1997 interview with DiLeo was all about the Guardian Angel Home's 100th anniversary. The following year while attending a convention in Chicago, DiLeo drove to Joliet to see the orphanage. That was his first time back.

He sat in his car staring at the home as his memories rushed back. And he remembered the kindness of Sister Paul Korman and Sister Rose Spatney, both whom he was able to locate at Our Lady of Angels.

"They're like family," he said of his first visit with the nuns. Each time he is now in Chicago on business, he drives to Joliet to see them.

DiLeo spent five years at the orphanage before he and his brother were transferred to Boys Town.

Of those four little kids who entered the Guardian Angel Home, one became a nun, another operates a resort in Alaska and the third is a successful businessman in Dallas. DiLeo, who has a degree from the University of Nebraska, is a marketing consultant with his own firm. He has two adult daughters.

He said his business partner encouraged him to write the book. After listening to DiLeo talk about the orphanage, the partner pointed out just how grateful he should be to the nuns from Joliet.

When he finally sat down at his computer to write, he completed the first draft of the 110-page book in a matter of days. The writing flowed as easily as his memories had returned.

The book can be read on-line at salsbook.com.

This book, which is self-published, wasn't written to make money, DiLeo said. But if he does make some money from it the funds will be used to invest in a little country home he owns in northern Minnesota. He would like to turn this place into a get-away spot for nuns.

DiLeo said after the four of them were taken to the orphanage, their mother moved to Kankakee. They saw her a few times during the following year and then she disappeared from their lives.

In the book, he writes about tracking down his mother's family background in New York City. He has also found information about his father, who died in 1985. The man was a Sicilian immigrant.

But DiLeo hasn't been able to determine why his father deserted the family except that he was apparently uneducated and overwhelmed by the 12 kids. As a father, that kind of excuse just isn't acceptable, DiLeo said.

His brothers and sisters still keep contact with each other. The sister who became a nun died at a young age. He is planning a family reunion for later this year.

DiLeo's oldest daughter, Jane, a college sophomore and future journalist, helped him write the book. She and her sister grew up listening to their father tell stories about his days in the Guardian Angel Home at Joliet.

"The kind sisters there did save my life," DiLeo said. "And they loved me."

If you have an idea for a column, call John Whiteside at (815) 729-6052, write to 300 Caterpillar Dr., Joliet, Ill. 60436-1097 or send e-mail to jwhiteside@scn1.com.

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Related Resources

Guardian Angel Home website:
www.guardianangelhome.org

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Sal N. Di Leo
2611 Ulysses St. NE
PO Box 18334
Minneapolis MN 55418
Tel/Fax 612.382.3582

 

 


"One of the best books I have ever read!  Wow!  To think the author had to self-publish is unbelievable!"
—the legendary Vern Gagne on Did I Ever Thank You, Sister?

 

"It struck deeply to think about the struggles children are exposed to—then and now."
—Eric Robertson